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HELP FOR EXTRAMARITAL AFFAIRS
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There is hope for your marriage!
If you’ve just discovered your partner has been having an extramarital
affair… or if your partner has just found out you’ve been having one…
there’s hope for your marriage!
How much hope? That depends largely on what you do during the first few days
following the affair’s revelation.
You have choices, not all of them good.
When an affair suddenly comes to light, different people feel different
things. Each feeling can lead to a different reaction, a different choice.
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For example, if you are the betrayed spouse you may be devastated and as a
result shutting down and withdrawing. Or you may be furious and so perhaps
you are hurling insults at your partner.
Or if you are the unfaithful spouse, you may be deeply remorseful and as a
result apologizing endlessly. Or you may be panicked that your spouse might
leave you and so perhaps you are trying to minimize the affair.
Any of these choices are understandable, but if continued they likely will
drive your spouse further away. The result could be a needless divorce.
There is a better choice.
It’s the choice being made every day by emotionally intelligent couples all
across the country whose marriages have been rocked by extramarital affairs.
That choice is:
Seek immediate help from a competent marital therapist!
With professional help, your marriage really can recover from an
extramarital affair.
Dr. Lindsay can help you!
He specializes in helping couples recover from extramarital affairs. Over the
past 30-plus years, Dr. Lindsay has helped hundreds of
couples do just that. Chances are excellent that he can help you and your
partner heal from infidelity and become closer than you've ever been, if you
are willing to work at it!
It might seem impossible to you, but take it from Dr. Lindsay and the many
affair-stricken couples he has assisted. That gaping wound can be healed!
That broken trust can be repaired! You can win your partner back! An affair
need never happen again!
Dr. Lindsay's
approach is proven effective.
To help you and your partner recover from an affair, he’ll use a
state-of-the-art
approach that has been proven effective by more than 25 years of research.
It’s called Emotionally Focused Marital Therapy (EFT) and, according to a
meta-analysis of four research studies, it brings 70-75% of distressed
couples to recovery and 90% to at least significant improvement! Fully 86%
of couples report feeling happier in their relationships after participating
in EFT.
Included in EFT Marital Therapy is a specific, eight-step process of healing
and reconciliation that has been demonstrated by EFT research to be
effective in helping couples recover from affairs. No hit or miss here. Dr.
Lindsay
knows exactly what to do!
He’ll work quickly to help you restore a secure bond in your relationship.
Seek help immediately, before things get worse.
The longer you delay seeking help for an extramarital affair, the more
damage can be done, making your relationship more difficult to repair. Those
first few days following the affair’s revelation are highly critical.
You may think that your marriage can recover from an affair without
professional help, but trust us on this. Your chances of achieving a full
recovery are far greater with competent marital therapy than without it.
What if your spouse is unwilling to go to marital
therapy with you?
He or she might not want to work on the marriage at this time. Or perhaps
your partner is willing to work on the marriage, just not in the context of
couple therapy.
Either way, Dr. Lindsay has other strategies that could help you save your marriage
acting alone. After you and he have worked together for a short time, your
spouse may change his or her mind and decide to join you.
Call now!
You’re not alone. Dr. Lindsay is here for you.
Call him at 303-545-9828. Your inquiry will be entirely confidential.
When you call, Dr. Lindsay will tell you more about how he can help you and your partner
recover from an affair. It may take courage for you to call, but you’ll be
glad you did.
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Important!
- Do you need quick results? Are you from outside our area and wanting
to see Dr. Lindsay because of his nationwide reputation as specialist on
extramarital affairs? Then a
private marital therapy weekend intensive might be for you. For details, click here.
- An affair is an extremely complicated matter, and when one has
happened not just any therapist will do. It is important to see a
marital therapist who is highly trained and experienced.
To find out about how to find a maximally
effective marital therapist, click here.
For a complimentary phone consultation, call now:
303-545-9828
Jay S. Lindsay, Ph.D.
Marital Therapist
Marriage Counselor
Licensed Clinical Psychologist
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
357 McCaslin Boulevard
Louisville, CO 80027
Dr. Lindsay's office is conveniently located just off route 36, only 10
minutes from Boulder. For directions,
click here.
Serving couples in the Boulder area for more than 30
years.
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