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MARRIAGE COUNSELING
If your relationship is mostly harmonious but you want help solving a particular problem, most likely you don’t need 8 to 20 sessions of marital therapy, which is for couples in
frequent and/or severe discord.
Instead, as few as 2 or 3 sessions of marriage counseling may suffice... and you’d be hard put to find a better marriage counselor than Dr. Jay Lindsay.
Over the past 30 years, he’s helped thousands of stuck couples get unstuck. Dr. Lindsay is a true relationship expert. He’ll help you solve your problem quickly… and if your intimacy has waned, he’ll help you get the loving feelings back!
Marriage counseling modalities that Dr. Lindsay can use to help you include: direct advice, brief intervention, rapid skills training, and focused mediation.
Direct Advice
Perhaps you want Dr. Lindsay to be your consultant, to give you direct advice about a problem such as:
Many counselors shy away from giving direct advice. Dr. Lindsay does not. Let him help you decide what to do… so you can get it done and make life better.
Brief Intervention
Or perhaps you want Dr. Lindsay to be your interventionist, to jump in and help you eliminate an annoying
glitch in your interaction. The glitch occurs periodically and is limited to just one area of your life together.
Usually, an interactional glitch occurs in an area where a need is not being fully met. One of you wants more
than the other is currently giving in an area like one of these:
sexual frequency
openness in communication
time spent together
help managing the children or doing chores
time socializing with other couples
The glitch goes like this: one of you asks the other to try harder to meet a
certain need. The other partner agrees to do better, but then doesn’t follow through. It’s frustrating.
If left unattended, an interactional glitch can grow into a full-blown negative interaction pattern that can create chronic discord.
This can be avoided! Let Dr. Lindsay do a brief intervention and help you nip your glitch in the bud so that the need can be fulfilled and your harmony can continue.
Rapid Skills Training
Or maybe you want Dr. Lindsay to be your trainer, to equip you with a skills set like one of these:
With essential skills, your relationship probably will succeed. Without them, it likely will fail. Let Dr. Lindsay use his rapid skills training to equip you with the tools you need to succeed in your relationship.
Focused Mediation
Or possibly you want Dr. Lindsay to be your referee, to help you resolve a conflict about an issue such as:
how to handle a critical and demanding in-law
whether or not to have children
how much time your partner spends at work or with friends
whether or not to buy an expensive new home
how to raise your children, your way or your partner’s way
If you and your partner have a conflict issue that just won’t go away, let Dr. Lindsay help you focus on it and resolve it once and for all. Why allow an unsettled dispute to continue to strain your relationship?
To sum up, if you have a good relationship for the most part but you’ve been stuck on a particular problem, Dr. Jay Lindsay’s marriage counseling can help you get unstuck. Just 2 or 3 session may be all you’ll need.
Whether you are seeking direct advice, brief intervention, rapid skills training, or focused mediation, Dr. Lindsay will give you expert assistance, quickly and economically.
He’ll help you solve your problem so you can put it behind you and move forward. Also, if your problem has diminished your closeness, Dr. Lindsay will help you get the loving feelings back!
For a complimentary phone consultation, call now:
303-545-9828
Jay S. Lindsay, Ph.D.
Marital Therapist
Marriage Counselor
Licensed Clinical Psychologist
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
357 McCaslin Boulevard
Louisville, CO 80027
Dr. Lindsay's office is conveniently located just off route 36, only 10
minutes from Boulder. For directions,
click here.
Serving couples in the Boulder area for more than 30
years.
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