RELATIONSHIP SERVICES


Here is a complete list of all the relationship services offered by Dr. Jay Lindsay.  Click on the service headings that interest you!
 


Marital Therapy

Are you and your partner fighting a lot? Are you avoiding each other? Are you in crisis, perhaps due to divorce threats or an extramarital affair?

If any of these apply, then Dr. Jay Lindsay’s marital therapy is for you. It’s for couples in frequent and/or severe discord. To stop their fighting or avoiding, or to resolve their crisis, these couples need more than advice. They need to change the dynamics of how they relate.

To help you and your partner change your dynamics, Dr. Lindsay will use a revolutionary approach called Emotionally Focused Marital Therapy (EFT). It brings 70-75% of distressed couples to recovery and 90% to significant improvement.

If your relationship is in severe discord, Dr. Lindsay’s marital therapy will help you get the loving feelings back.

For details, click here.


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Marriage Counseling

Are you and your partner getting along well for the most part but having communication difficulties? …or experiencing an unfulfilled need? …or arguing over a single issue, such as money, parenting, or in-laws?

If any of these apply, then Dr. Jay Lindsay’s marriage counseling is for you. It’s for couples who are mostly harmonious. These couples don’t need to change the dynamics of how they relate. However, they do need help in solving a particular problem, like one of those just mentioned.

Dr. Lindsay’s approach to marriage counseling is straightforward and to the point. It includes direct advice, brief intervention, rapid skills training, and focused mediation.

With Dr. Lindsay’s marriage counseling, just two or three sessions may be all you’ll need to solve your problem and get your relationship back on track.

For details, click here.


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Premarital Counseling

Dr. Jay Lindsay’s premarital counseling will help you prepare maximally for marriage. 

He’ll help you and your partner get ready not just for a wedding, but for a lifetime together.  For state of the art, scientifically-based premarital counseling, he’s the professional to see. 

In your first session, Dr. Lindsay will get acquainted with you.  Then he’ll help you custom-design a marriage preparation program that will meet your unique needs… and fit your budget.  You’ll get to choose which components you want to include. 

With Dr. Lindsay’s premarital counseling, you’ll get off to a great start as a married couple.  

For details, click here.


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Individual Help for Relationship Issues

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If you want individual help for relationship issues, then Dr. Jay Lindsay is the professional to see.  He has more than 30 years experience helping thousands of people achieve maximal intimacy. 

There are many situations that are suitable for individual help.  Here are several: 

·          your partner is threatening to leave and won’t join you in couple therapy

·          you have fears that are getting in the way of intimacy

·          your relationship has become dissatisfying or destructive and you’re considering leaving

·          you keep on winding up in dead-end relationships

To assist you, Dr. Lindsay will use powerful, state of the art counseling and psychotherapy strategies.  He’ll give you the input you need and help you identify your options and sort them through.  Then, he’ll help you design a plan and implement it. 

With individual help from Dr. Lindsay, you’ll get your relationship issues resolved once and for all. 

For details, click here.


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Workshops

Now at last there’s a way for you to get the many benefits of Emotionally Focused Marital Therapy (EFT) at a fraction of the cost of private marital therapy! You can take Dr. Jay Lindsay’s workshop for couples called Strengthening Marital Connection.

This powerful, eight-week program is based on Emotionally Focused Marital Therapy (EFT), the revolutionary approach that brings 70-75% of distressed couples to recovery and 90% to significant improvement.

If you’ve never experienced EFT, then Strengthening Marital Connection is a chance for you and your partner to change the dynamics of how you relate to each other and develop a deep emotional connection.

Or if you’ve already experienced EFT in private marital therapy with Dr. Lindsay, then this is your opportunity to review and pull together all that you’ve learned.

For details, click here.
 

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Private Marital Therapy Weekend Intensives


 

If your marriage is in distress and you want rapid relief, come to colorful Colorado for a private marital therapy weekend intensive with Dr. Lindsay. 

On your intensive, he’ll work privately with just the two of you.  He’ll pack a number of sessions into several days in order to produce rapid results. 

Your sessions will be close together, so you’ll build momentum.  You’ll go deeper faster,  much faster than if you met weekly over a long period of time.  Instead, in your marital therapy intensives you’ll get right to the roots of your issues.

You'll be absolutely amazed at how much you'll accomplish!

For details, click here.


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Help for Extramarital Affairs

If your relationship is reeling from the trauma of an extramarital affair, there is expert assistance available.  Dr. Jay Lindsay specializes in helping couples recover from extramarital affairs.  Over the past 30-plus years, he’s helped hundreds of couples do just that.  

It might seem impossible to you, but take it from Dr. Lindsay and the many affair-stricken couples he has assisted.  That gaping wound can be healed!  That broken trust can be repaired!  You can win your partner back!  An affair need never happen again! 

With Dr. Lindsay’s help, chances are excellent that you and your partner can recover from an extramarital affair and become closer than you’ve ever been. 

For details, click here.


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Faith-Based Help

Christian marital therapy and Christian marriage counseling are available from Dr. Jay Lindsay upon request.  

What it you really don’t want a Christian approach?   Then Dr. Lindsay will not attempt to impose one upon you.  Rather, he’ll help you within the context of your own beliefs, whether religious or nonreligious.  

However, if you do want a Christian approach, then Dr. Lindsay just might be the therapist you’re looking for.  A faith-based approach could make all the difference in saving your marriage and making it all it was meant to be. 

For details, click here.
 

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Relationship Assessments

Maybe all you and your partner need is a quick relationship assessment so that you can know what to work on to improve your relationship. 

Dr. Jay Lindsay uses two scientifically-designed inventories for this purpose.  He’ll administer them to you and your partner and then meet with you to interpret the results. 

The first inventory is the Prepare-Enrich Inventory (PEI), which will pinpoint your relationship strengths and growth areas.  That way you can build on your strengths and address the areas that need improvement.  

The second inventory is the Myers Briggs Personality Type Indicator (MBTI), which will help you and your partner better understand each other’s personalities and how they interact, including potential pitfalls.   

If you want insight into your relationship that can help you and your partner to produce real and lasting change, then a relationship assessment with Dr. Lindsay will give you that.


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Couple Communication Course

Do you want to increase your relationship satisfaction?  If so, experts say that one of the best things you and your partner can do is improve your communication. 

Dr. Jay Lindsay will teach you eleven specific communication skills that will help you to talk with full awareness, listen with understanding, and resolve conflicts more effectively.   

To do this, he’ll use Couple Communication I (CC-I), the most researched couple communication course available.  Numerous studies have shown that CC-I improves communication and increases relationship satisfaction.  It’s quick, easy, and effective! 

You’ll take CC- I from Dr. Lindsay in the privacy of his office rather than in a group setting.  Since he’ll be working with just the two of you, you’ll have confidentiality and he’ll be able to tailor the course to your needs.  

You can take CC-I either as a part of marriage counseling or as a stand-alone program.  Most couples complete CC-I in three to four one-hour sessions. 

What a great investment!  The new communication skills you’ll learn from Dr. Lindsay in CC-I will serve you for a lifetime.


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Speeches and Events

Are you looking for a fascinating presentation for your church or community service organization?

Dr. Jay Lindsay can deliver! He’s presented hundreds of speeches on intimacy-related topics and has facilitated dozens of marriage enrichment events all across the country. He does keynote addresses, workshops, and weekend retreats.

A high point of Dr. Lindsay’s presentations is always the question-answer time. He shines at responding to his audience’s queries with clarity and vigor.

Dr. Lindsay is an exceptionally engaging public speaker. Invite him to address your group. The audience will be glad you did and so will you!
 

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For a complimentary phone consultation, call now:

303-545-9828


Jay S. Lindsay, Ph.D.
Marital Therapist
Marriage Counselor


Licensed Clinical Psychologist
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist

357 McCaslin Boulevard
Louisville, CO  80027

Dr. Lindsay's office is conveniently located just off route 36, only 10 minutes from Boulder.  For directions, click here.

Serving couples in the Boulder area for more than 30 years.

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