Affair Recovery Program For Boulder Area Couples

“Your affair-shattered marriage can be repaired.”

Are you reeling from the devastation of an extramarital affair?

My Affair Recovery Program can help you heal from this devastating betrayal.

If your partner has had the affair…

  • You’re in excruciating pain, stunned, and disoriented
  • You’re alternating between numbness and rage
  • You may be feeling despair

You may be asking yourself:

  • “How could my spouse do this to me?”
  • “Do I even know my partner?”
  • “Will I ever be able to trust again?”
  • “Can my marriage be saved?”
  • “Do I even want it to be saved?”

If you’ve had the affair…

You may be:

  • Feeling guilty and ashamed that you’ve been unfaithful
  • Feeling humiliated, perhaps defensive
  • Feeling relieved that the strain of living a double life is over, yet frightened about the future
  • Missing your affair partner and feeling torn between that person and your spouse
  • Wanting desperately to save your marriage… or maybe you’re unsure

boulder couples therapy

You’re not alone when you sit with me in one of my Boulder couples therapy sessions.

Infidelity is one of the most common reasons that couples come to me for weekly marriage counseling and for my marriage counseling weekend intensives.

Couples in crisis come to participate in a highly effective program that I have developed over the past 40years. Interventions used in this couples counseling program have helped hundreds of couples nationwide to survive infidelity.

You may think that your marriage can’t possibly survive the betrayal, but very likely it can survive… and even thrive. My Affair Recovery Program can help you and your partner get past the affair and become closer than ever.

With the couples counseling I provide in my program, there is hope for your marriage:

  • That gaping wound can be healed.
  • That broken trust can be repaired.
  • You can win your partner back.
  • An affair need never happen again.

Why do you need an Affair Recovery Program?

Nothing is more threatening to a marriage than an extramarital affair.

Each year, thousands of affair-stricken couples break up needlessly, because they don’t get the right kind of help.

My program offers to Boulder area couples specialized therapy that is carefully structured to accomplish two things:

First, it can help you avoid making costly mistakes that can delay or even derail the healing process in your relationship.

Second, it can help you make sure you cover all the steps of affair recovery in the right order and in the right way so that your marriage really does heal.

You may think you can survive infidelity on your own, but trust me on this. Your marriage has a much greater chance of staying together if you get help from a marriage therapist who specializes in counseling couples who have experienced infidelity.Call me for Boulder couples therapy.

Here’s how my Affair Recovery Program works:

Over the past 40 years, I have discovered that when an affair has occurred in a marriage, a couple must move through seven stages of recovery if they are to heal.

These seven stages are the basis of my Affair Recovery Program.

Here are the seven stages of affair recovery I have discovered:

  1. Managing the Immediate Crisis
  2. Clarifying What Happened
  3. Healing the Wounded Partner
  4. Healing the Involved Partner
  5. Clarifying Why It Happened
  6. Repairing the Bond
  7. Moving Forward

The cutting-edge Boulder couples therapy approach I’ll use to help you has nearly a 75% success rate:

Couples Therapy for infidelityAs I guide you through your affair recovery, I’ll primarily use a highly effective approach to marriage counseling that is ideally suited for helping couples heal from infidelity. It’s called Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy, or EFT.

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Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy.


Why choose me to help you heal from an affair?

I’m an affair recovery specialist with 40 years of experience and a national reputation for rescuing affair-stricken couples and pulling them back from the brink of divorce.

Additional reasons for choosing me to help you recover from infidelity can be found on my About Dr. Jay Lindsay page.

You can do my Affair Recovery Program in one of two ways:

If you want to make steady progress, you can go through my Affair Recovery Program in the context of weekly Boulder couples therapy sessions.

Or, if you want to make rapid progress, you can go through my program in the context of a marriage counseling weekend intensive. On your intensive I’ll do highly focused marriage counseling with just the two of you for five hours per day over three days.

Yes, there really is hope for your marriage when one of you has been unfaithful:

Very likely, your affair-shattered marriage can be repaired.

My recovery program can help you pick up the pieces and put them back together again.

That may seem impossible to you right now, but take it from the many affair-stricken couples that I have assisted.  It really is possible.

Your marriage can survive infidelity and be made whole again.

Seek help right now before things get worse:

The longer you delay in seeking help for an affair, the more damage can be done, making your marriage more difficult to save.

So get help immediately!

Take that first step toward affair recovery by calling me now at (720) 598-0990

Read the success stories of two couples who participated in my Boulder couples therapy Affair Recovery Program:
Tom and Carol
  Nancy and Doug

Dr. Jay Lindsay is an affair recovery specialist for couples whose relationship has been torn apart by the betrayal of infidelity. He offers weekly couples therapy sessions as well as private marriage therapy weekend intensives in his office in Louisville, near Boulder, CO.